Do you know one of those people who go right to the gloom and doom places? Or maybe you are one of them. You know when something goes wrong the whole roof is going to fall in and everyone is going to die. There are times that most of us have gone to that place. This is the time to laugh at ourselves, but that is difficult to do when you are in the middle of the situation. Try to look at the situation from a new perspective, a new way of looking at the issue. Take yourself to your favorite spot in the world. Maybe the beach? How does the situation look like from there? Or from the mountain top? What do you see? Is the situation as BIG as you thought it was? How can you react to it in a positive way? If you are so stuck you just can’t leave the situation then stay there and what if the worst happens? What does it feel like? What would happen next? How would you get yourself out of it?